Hi Khumbulekhaya my name is Suzette Tsolo. I am from Ceres a town in western cape. My mother Mavis Tsolo passed away in 2008, and i had to go live with my aunt which is my moms eldest sister. I went to school in Ceres where i completed my matric in 2014. i then went to study Management Assistance in Vredendal Fet College where i got a bursary. I would really like you to help me find my father whom i havent seen my entire life. I have contact with his sister and her children. I did try to contact him, but the erlders told me to wait until he told his new wife about my existance. I waited for approximately 2 months for them to get back to me, but they didnt. I therefor called them again, when the elders told me his wife refused for me to be part of his life. My father currently lives in Cape Town, and i would really want to meet him just so that i can know who i am and where i come from. I grew up in a coulard way and traditions so i dont know anything about my customs and my family’s beliefs. I dont need to be part of his life but i just need him to teach me about my customs. Many people ask me who a really am but i fail to tell them cause I myself am not even sure about that myself. I just need to know my identity. Please help me.